bitter pill

how many times, have you been told, or experience this:
you have taken your sugar, now you have to take your medicine?

ppl make new friends now and again. the first few contacts, it’s pretty fun. you find out what interest both of u share. both invite each other to outings, movies, dinner, lunch, shopping…- hanging out is damn fun.
and which that, you both got closer.

and then, both begin to see the ‘bad sides’. it’s fine actually, because no one is changing anyone else, but still, advice is offered:
“oh! you shouldn’t bite your fingernails.”
“maybe you wanna join a gym?”
“why don’t you consider looking for another job if you keep complaining about your current one?”
“you shouldn’t smoke that much”
“you shouldn’t drink that much if you are vomitting blood”

and that’s when, the relationship turn sour. the one being offered the advice would think that his/her friend is being kaypoh. yes, that friend is kaypoh, but that friend is just voicing out concerns. friends concern each other.

the one being offered advice, would sometimes think: I don’t need another mother in my life.

and thus… the two began to drift apart.

YOU!
who are you?

are you often getting advise from friends? and choose to ignore that advice and choose to distant yourself from that friend?
or are you the one who offer advice? and realized your friend is ignoring you? and you feel alone?

so this is a lesson:
NEVER OFFER ADVICE

to remain friends and improve on your friendship, never offer advise that’s deem to wanna change some kind of traits…
to remain friends and improve on your friendship, support one another though it’s …. meaningless. take for example:

A: i hate my job. i hate it, i hate it
B: why don’t you consider looking for another job if you keep complaining about your current one?
WRONG!!!!! B shouldn’t say that. B should say:
B: your boss is really teruk, go tiu him habis habis

A: My girlfriend….shit, she damn ma fan.
B: How come?
A: Aiyahhh… Shit her lar. Got lar. I smoke so much also because of her, she make me stress, i smoke to de-stress. Chilakak
B: You know, you shouldn’t smoke that much
WRONG!!!!! B shouldn’t say that. B should say:
B: Your gf is damn teruk lar. Wah kau. Should just dump her
WRONG!!!!! B shouldn’t say that. B should say:
B: Your gf is damn teruk lar. Wah kau. Girl damn ma fan.

ok, enough examples.
anyway, MY ADVICE IS:

don’t offer your friend the bitter pill. They’ll DIE DIE DIE.
Bitter pill can only be offer to friends that are more than 10 years. Yup! Sup nin, sepuluh tahun… and that also with risk wan ok?

damnit

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One Response to “bitter pill”

  1. angel Says:

    lil’ botol, why are u always in sucha crappy mood eh? macam foreva PMS liddat…

    yamseng!

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